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It is always on men’s minds what they want to do to you. Kenneth Okonkwo Tells Ladies: “Appreciate The Man Who Actually Opens Up To You About A Bad Habit Or Character Of Yours.”

Men are always thinking about what they want to do to you, the author wrote. Thank the man for genuinely opening up to you about the things you do that he finds objectionable.”

“You are loved by that man. The reason behind the prevalence of stories like “I was there with him from day one but he left me and married someone else” is that most men just put you where they think you belong.”

“Yes, you stayed. You did give up a few things for him, indeed. The issue was that, despite his complaints, you were unwilling to alter some of your behaviors and character. Men may discreetly leave you for this reason at times.

“A man is a cheater; it is in their nature.” ~ Baba Tee

Nollywood actor Baba Tee, aka Babatunde Bernard, discusses infidelity and says that cheating is practically inevitable for men.

A man’s natural tendency to cheat is deeply ingrained, according to the actor, who recently opened up about being physically abused by his first wife, in an interview with The Honest Bunch podcast.

Baba Tee says that even in cases of extramarital affairs, a man’s thoughts never leave his wife.

Until a woman chooses to marry an AI and have complete control over its behavior, he likens cheating to being a man’s “next skin.”

In response to the question of whether a woman is wasting her time trying to win a man over, Baba Tee says that she may wind up living alone for the rest of her days.

The landlord in Anambra reimburses the new tenant’s rent after learning that he is from Ebonyi State.

The affected tenant, pastor Ifeanyichukwu Eluu, wrote about his experience on the internet. What he wrote was

“My previous experience in obtaining an apartment in the state of Anambra was not pleasant. I had given the caretaker my entire payment for the apartment and was getting ready to move in the next day after signing the required tenancy agreement. 

“However, there was a later review because we had stayed in a hotel for a longer period of time.” We therefore had to move into the property as soon as possible, and we told the caretaker of this. We hurried to acquire the necessities to furnish the house immediately, and that same evening, we moved in.

“At about midnight, I noticed an alert showing the precise amount of money I gave the caregiver. As soon as I called him, he informed me that the landlord had returned the money after learning that we were from the state known as “Abakaliki,” in Ebonyi.

“I was deeply offended, ashamed, and alarmed by the degree of prejudice directed towards my fellow brothers. 

“I finally got a house but then the man asked where I’m demand I told him “Afikpo”. Then he said, okay, I know Afikpo, they are partly Abia state, I can consider you, that’s how we settled. 

Going through this route just to get a house to live in doesn’t make me happy and it seems bias.

“Please, let the concerned handlers review this in time, hence the maxim “Igbo bu ofu”.

How I met my husband on Facebook — Simi

“I never knew he was a singer as well,” says Nigerian sonorous singer Simi, discussing how she met her husband Adekunle Gold on Facebook. Additionally, she disclosed her choice to not wed a singer.

In response to her husband’s Facebook message, the singer claims that she mistook him for a fan and chose not to reply. During a live recording of the podcast “Tea With Tay,” Simi revealed these things. She then shared the video to her Instagram page.

“I already said I cannot marry a singer, so I did not know my husband was a singer when I first met him. I mistook him for a fan. 

At one point, he was known as the “King of Photoshop.” She claimed, “I never saw the message he sent me on Facebook, and I did not reply.”

Simi stated that her objective is to defend women’s autonomy to do as they please, free from coercion or fear.

“It is all up to you whether you want to be a slay mama or the most submissive woman in the world,” she continued.

But Simi made a hint that a new album is on the way sooner rather than later.

Ebuka Obi-Uchendu’s wife: “I will never get a divorce”

Cynthia, Ebuka Obi-Uchendu’s wife from the reality show Big Brother Naija, has declared she will never file for divorce.

I refuse to get divorced, says Ebuka Obi-Uchendu’s wife.

In response to a fan’s question about her divorce from her husband, Ebuka, she made this statement during a Q&A session on her own podcast.

In response, Cynthia said, “Why would you even ask such a question?” Please tell me the reason behind your inquiry.

“I will never get divorced, and I am not getting divorced. What an odd question that is. Do you want to see me get divorced? You are rejected by me. I am not insecure by nature. Thus, he does his job. It works the same as any other job. I do not believe that my insecurity stems from his work.

BBNaija: Mercy Eke and Venita’s Relationship Appears Unresolved 

:Venita talks candidly about her relationship with Mercy Eke at the moment.

The BBNaija star Venita Akpofure has talked candidly about her relationship with Mercy Eke, a close friend from the past.

Remember how Mercy Eke and Venita unfollowed one another a few weeks following the conclusion of Big Brother Naija All Stars?

Fans have been curious about the status of the friendship between the two ladies, who had entered the Big Brother house as the closest of friends before parting ways on shaky terms.

In their chat, reality TV star Tacha talked about Venita’s life after BBNaija, covering her relationships and experiences.

A pivotal moment in the conversation occurred when Tacha inquired about Venita’s current status with Mercy Eke.

In response, Venita said that she has little time for personal relationships because of her demanding work, which frequently requires her to travel abroad.

By expressing her distaste for “watering any flower,” Venita seemed to be ending her relationship with Mercy.

She made it clear, though, that she did not think there were any major issues between them.

Why I don’t consider my failed marriages as failure – Funke Akindele

Funke Akindele, a Nollywood producer, has opened up about her failures and the reasons behind her decision not to label her failed marriages as failures.

Akindele stated in a Wazobia FM interview in Lagos that her mother instilled in her the belief that success is impossible without failure at a young age.

She emphasizes the value of her work and mental health while saying she simply takes marriage “as it comes.”

The actress continued by saying that she wants to inspire the next generation, lead a meaningful life, and support her siblings and children.

“If you ask me now, can you tell me one failure? I do not see it as a failure,” she remarked. My personal life—my marriage—I just go with the flow. I put a lot of importance on my mental health. My career matters a lot, sweetheart.

“I must have an influence. I have to empower a lot of people. I have to motivate the youth in our community. I have to continue being strong for my siblings and kids. For what reason am I alive? My mind is focused because I have a goal. 

According to Funke Akindele, “Yes, I cry and I break down, but after I cry, I just look in the mirror and say, ‘keep moving.'”

According to actress Caroline Danjuma, “I regret ending my marriage and would love to go back to my ex-husband”

Remember that in 2016 after nine years of marriage, Nollywood actress Caroline Danjuma and her ex-husband Musa Danjuma called it quits?

Caroline did, however, express in an interview that she would adore going back to see her ex-husband with media personality Innih Emah.

Had she had the experience she now has, she claims she never would have left her marriage.

She explained, “I think I would have handled it better if I had been this age and had the experience I have now. There were just some irreconcilable differences.”

The love of my life would always be him, Musa. My three children are fathered by him. I said to him, “You know what?” I am lucky to have this man as my husband. That being said, he would always be my true love, and that would never change.

“I would love to start a family and get married again, whether it is to my ex-husband or a new, wonderful man that God sent. Yes, if God says this is the man you are going to marry, I would absolutely love to return to him [my ex-husband]. Happiness and mental tranquility are all I want. I just want someone I can grow with and have peace of mind with as I get older. Money is not as valuable as mental tranquility.

A 32-year-old bank staff ends her life

When a staff member’s lifeless body was discovered on the bank’s restroom floor, a sense of uneasy calm descended upon one of the first-generation banks in the Ikorodu neighborhood of Lagos State.

It was reported that Amarachi Ugochukwu, the deceased, had committed suicide.

Two things were discovered on the toilet floor: an empty insecticide can and a suicide note, which she may have consumed.

According to her coworkers, the late Amarachi, a marketing employee, got up from her table at noon on January 8, 2024, to take a nap.

Her phone, which she had left on the table, kept ringing and not answering, which is when her extended absence was noticed.

It was rumored that some of her coworkers looked for her around the building out of curiosity.

‘I no dey do again’, Terry G quits music

Terry G, better known as Oche Gabriel Amanyi, a legendary singer from Nigeria, has announced his retirement from performing.

This was announced on Saturday by the “AKpako master” in an Instagram post.

While keeping the reason for his decision a secret, he expressed his gratitude to his supporters for their love over the years.

“I want to express my gratitude to my fans for supporting me over the years,” he said. I sincerely thank each and every one of you. The past two years have been incredible. I appreciate all of your kindness.

However, I have a major announcement to make soon. Although I have personal reasons, I know it will hurt a lot of people. I’m quitting music. I have finished. And thank you so much for your love, you guys, he continued.

Sangalow, Jump And Pass, Free Madness, and Akpako Master are a few of Terry G’s well-known songs.

A businessman asks for 16 troops, 20 police officers, and 12 DSS for security. 

Popular Nicholas Ukachukwu, a politician and businessman from Anambra, has requested heavy security guards, including 16 soldiers, 20 police officers, and 12 Department of State Services agents, to protect him during this joyous occasion.

In order to fulfill certain obligations in early January 2024, Ukachukwu asked for strict security so he could travel to Osumenyi, his hometown in the Nnewi South Local Government Area of Anambra State.

Following gunmen’s attack on the convoy of Chief Chris Uba, the former political godfather of Anambra State, the businessman filed the application.

Two police officers and two other people were killed in Thursday’s incident at Uga Junction, in Uba’s hometown.

In separate letters to the heads of state security agencies, Ukachukwu—who recently wed Miss Universe Nigeria, Mitchel Ihezue—stated that he would require the security personnel due to the insecurity in the area.

In his signed letters, Ukachukwu stated that in order to carry out the tasks he had planned for the state during that time, he would require sixteen soldiers, twenty police officers, and twelve DSS agents.

Burundi president calls for public stoning of gay couples.

Burundi’s President, Evariste Ndayishimiye, has launched an anti-gay movement, saying same-sex couples should be publicly stoned.

He also spoke against Western countries that press other nations to allow gay rights or risk losing aid.

Homosexuality in Burundi, a conservative Christian country in East Africa has been criminalised since 2009 with prison terms of up to two years for consensual same-sex acts.

Ndayishimiye, described the marriage between same-sex couples as an “abominable practice.”

He added that Burundians living abroad who have “chosen the devil” and practice homosexuality should “not come back.”

Police man shot to death in Imo by Girlfriend 

Cosmas Ugwu, a police officer employed by the Imo State Police Command, was shot and k#lled by his girlfriend.

On Tuesday, Amanda Uchechi Ugo, a native of Ahiazu Mbaise Local Government Area in Imo State, shot and k#lled Ugwu. Uchechi Ugo is 23 years old.

That happened at the Ezinihitte Area Command on Boxing Day at about 6:30 p.m., according to trustworthy sources.

From the room that the deceased officer was occupying, officers on counter duty reported hearing three gunshots.

Corporal Ugwu was found lying in a pool of his own blood when police officers stormed into the room to investigate what was happening. He was shot three times in the chest and left hand by the girl. He was taken to Evergreen Hospital in Ezinihitte right away, where the on-call physician declared him dead, a source told reporters on Wednesday.

According to information, the deceased and his girlfriend got into a heated argument, during which she reached for his rifle, squeezed the trigger, and fired three shots at him.

“How the girl was able to use a police rifle successfully is still a surprise to many,” the source continued, “but nobody really knows what went wrong between the two.” It is possible that Ugwu was her teacher.

Although the investigation is still ongoing, the officer’s remains have been placed at the Obizi mortuary.

Presently, the suspect is being held by the police in order to be questioned and possibly prosecuted.

A woman was arrested in Lagos along with her son for ritually k1lling  their younger son.

The mother of a 32-year-old man named Afeez Olalere (pictured), who was detained by Lagos Police, has admitted that she pushed him to kill his younger brother as part of financial rites.

 “My mother brought me to a herbalist who told me that if I wanted to succeed in the Yahoo business, I should sacrifice one life and that person must be a sibling to He said he k1lled his brother, 21, with the help of a poison after receiving encouragement from his mother to do so. After that, he collected the necessary body parts.

Afeez added that he would need his brother’s thumbs, hair, fingers, and passport photo in order to make a mixture. During a stop-and-search operation along Itamaga, Ikorodu Road in Lagos, Afeez and his mother were apprehended.

Tinubu and his spouse welcome Oshoala in Lagos.

On Thursday, Super Falcons player Asisat Oshoala was invited to the Lagos home of President Bola Tinubu and his wife, Oluremi.

The First Lady uploaded photos to her X page while she was there.

“We had great pleasure in having six-time African Female Footballer of the Year Asisat Oshoala stay at our Lagos home,” the caption accompanying the images stated.

“I am proud of your achievements and I look forward to greater ones. Keep making Nigeria proud!”

CHANGE THEIR WORLD. CHANGE YOURS. THIS CHANGES EVERYTHING.